Wednesday, March 7, 2012

Ride Announcement


Amanda Ivory
Every 14.6 minutes someone in the U.S. dies by suicide. Nearly 1,000,000 people attempt suicide each year. There has been a steady increase of suicide since 2000. This is the highest rate in 15 years. www.save.org
On June 1st, 2012, a group of ambitious young adults will be riding their bikes across the country in The So Many Roads Tour. From Portland, OR to Portland, ME, the group will be traveling via road bike, documenting their progress and sharing it with the thousands of people connected to their social sites and website. The tour was founded by Delicia Jernigan; a survivor of suicide wanting to create hope and raise awareness for suicide prevention.
The So Many Roads Tour is striving to raise awareness of suicide statistics, the survivors they leave behind, and bring inspiration to any that have suffered from depression and loss. Throughout the ride, they plan to meet with SOS and Suicide Prevention Groups in each state. The tour is hoping to raise funds for Outside In, a social service agency in Portland OR. Outside In works to address the needs of homeless youth and low income youth; last year sending 39 teens to college and helping 74 find employment. The organization provides medical care to more than 100 people daily. As a non-profit organization, donations are crucial for their survival.
The inspiration behind the tour stemmed from the tragic loss of Delicia’s younger brother Anthony to suicide. She began to channel her grief in a positive way, by long distance biking in the red rock mountains of St. George, UT; the benefits proved to be more than physical. She also sought out SOS (Survivors of Suicide) Groups, where she was able to connect with others and share her story. She realized the extreme importance of opening up and reaching out to help others.
Anthony Porcelli was only 21 years old when he lost his life to suicide; leaving family and friends in a state of heartbreak. Together they shared the overwhelming grief of losing someone they all adored and they shared the never-ending confusion of not knowing why. As survivors, they have found courage to share their story in hope that it will deter another from making the decision to take their life.  
Delicia and her team have made an effort to get their story out. By using social media, they have been able to connect with thousands of people. The blog and website have listed information where those struggling can find support. The ride was first announced on Delicia’s Facebook page to her friends and family, from there, word spread.  By the end of the day, survivors were sharing their stories on the blog page.
The persistence to push forward in life has been imprinted on Delicia’s life. When asked what she hopes to achieve, Delicia replies, “The ultimate goal is to create hope and to inspire those we meet to LIVE life in the most positive and conscious way that you can.”

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Monday, February 13, 2012

Friday, February 3, 2012

Two years ago today my younger brother Anthony committed suicide. I miss him with each passing day and cherish all of moments that I shared with such a special person. Not only was Anthony my best friend but he has become the greatest teacher in my life. In honor of my brother I created the "So Many Roads Tour", a ride to promote life. June 1st, 2012 I will begin my cycling journey from Portla...nd, OR to Portland, ME with a group of my friends. Along the way we will be meeting up with Survivors of Suicide Groups(SOS) and Suicide Prevention Groups. I will be sharing my brother's story along with my story of surviving the death of my loved one to suicide. Yes this ride is a fundraiser but the ultimate goal is to create hope and to inspire those we meet to LIVE life in the most positive and conscious way they can. Later this month we will announce the organizations we will be raising money for along with our website. I hope that you all will join us on our ride. For today I will leave you with this.

"To have patience with everything unresolved in your heart and to try to love the questions themselves as if they were locked rooms or books written in a very foreign language. Don't search for the answers, which could not be given to you now, because you would not be able to live them. And the point is to live everything. Live the questions now. Perhaps then, someday far in the future, you will gradually, without even noticing it, live your way into the answer." -Rainer Maria Rilke

You are alive and there is much work to be done! Get to work!!! I love you Anthony and thank you for giving me my life. I know you are with me every second, of every day.

We miss you!

For every suicide survivor, there is one day a year that is especially hard; the day they lost their loved one to suicide. This is an anniversary celebrated only in tears and private moments of reflection. Today is February 3rd, 2012; two years to the day that we lost our Anthony.
Anthony Arik Porcelli was only 21 years old when he lost his life. The words to describe his life do not really exist, because none of them sum up the beauty of his unique soul. I could tell you about all the wonderful things that he did, the way he made people laugh, the way he loved; but you will still never understand the loss that we feel. As I can never fully understand the loss of someone I have never known. I wish you could have known Anthony!
The unbearable reality is that it did not have to turn out this way. But with all loss, acceptance is crucial. We cannot stay in a state of misery forever. There is one thing that I am sure, Anthony never wanted to create such devastating feelings for the one's he loved. As I start out another day without my friend, I take it upon myself to smile at everyone I see and open my heart to a stranger. I do not know the struggles of others, but I will do my best to ease the weight on their shoulders today.